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The Power of ‘Thank You’

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“Thank you” is a miraculous expression. We feel good when we say it, and we feel good when we hear it. Every day, from morning to night, I continually say “Thank you.” When I visit other countries, it is the one expression I always learn and use, whether it is “Thank you,” “Merci,” “Danke,” “Gracias,” “Spasibo” or “Xie-xie.” I express my thanks with deep sincerity, looking the other person in the eye as I speak.

When we speak or hear the words thank you, the armor falls from our hearts, and we communicate on the deepest level. “Thank you” is the essence of nonviolence. It contains respect for the other person, humility and a profound affirmation of life. It possesses a positive, upbeat optimism. It has strength. A person who can sincerely say thank you has a healthy, vital spirit; and each time we say it our hearts sparkle and our life force rises up powerfully from the depths of our being.

I was deeply moved by Dr. [Salvador] Santiago-Negrón’s profound gratitude for his mentor, Dr. [Carlos] Albizu. Being grateful for the support so many others have given us—that awareness, that feeling, that joy—will bring us even greater happiness. In addition to being grateful because we are happy, the feeling of gratitude itself actually brings us happiness. Prayers with a spirit of gratitude, too, harmonize most effectively with the rhythm of the universe and turn our lives in a positive direction.

When we cannot say thank you, our personal growth stops. When we are growing, we can see how wonderful others are, too. When we stop growing, all we see are other people’s faults.

In our families, instead of trying to change our partners, children or siblings, why not start with the simple utterance, “Thank you”? (Excerpted from the April 2015 Living Buddhism, p. 16)

April 10, 2026 World Tribune, p. 11

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